fix(issue-18): admit remote attempts atomically, end timed-out commands with their group, fence heartbeats off the terminal, renew liveness only on news

Review round 2 (planner-reviewer-codex-01, NOT PASS at d09c162):

- R1 remote.mirror_job: admission under the registry lock. The same
  dispatch_token is idempotent (a finished attempt never runs again), a
  lower attempt or the same attempt under another token is refused before
  any write, and only a strictly newer attempt replaces the record
  (register_job(supersede_older_attempt=True); events.log kept, seqs stay
  monotonic).
- R2 remote.handle_dispatch: the --exec command runs in its own session;
  at timeout_sec, or when the runner is interrupted (SIGTERM now unwinds
  it), the whole process group is terminated (TERM, then KILL) before the
  error is published.
- R3 terminal barrier: a terminal publish raises an attempt-scoped barrier
  under the lock that allocates seqs, stops the heartbeat timer, gives it
  MAM_HEARTBEAT_DRAIN_S (default 1 s) to exit and then kills it, and only
  then takes its own seq. Beats are admitted under that lock
  (next_seq(admit=...)); a beat still on the wire is cancelled with the
  timer rather than holding the terminal back; and a late non-terminal
  event never publishes a running state over a terminal record.
- R4 job_subscriber: a retained state renews the idle clock only when its
  seq is newer than everything already accepted; re-delivered or older
  snapshots still recover a terminal status.
- tests: five regressions, all failing on 77f2829; T1-14's wall clock
  15 -> 30 s against public-broker latency.
- docs: MESSAGING 2.5 (barrier, state renewal, detection vs final close),
  heartbeat docstring, loop SKILL.md (remote rows need the Python runner),
  VERSIONS v4.5.0 items 1/4/5 and the test count (25).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01HCGpJXhSZasJLU38ksDghe

tests/test_issue6_fail_closed.py

@@ -615,7 +615,7 @@ def test_t1_14_working_agent_reobserve_completed(tmp_path, mock_herdr):
             "--prompt", "test T1-14",
             "--registry-dir", str(reg_dir),
             "--workdir", str(tmp_path),
-            "--timeout", "15",
+            "--timeout", "30",
             "--idle-timeout", "3",
         ],
         cwd=tmp_path,