fix(attach): hints print the row's attach_command (Issue #72, comments 926/930, U1)

create's closing hint, the delegate-job wrapper's dispatch hint and stop's
stuck-TUI message printed the pre-#71 forms (`herdr session attach <name>`,
`HERDR_SESSION_NAME=... herdr agent attach <name>`), which miss an agent whose
name is over 32 characters or has upper case. They now print the session row's
attach_command, or lib_py.agents.sanitize.attach_command(server, name) when
there is no row (lib.sh session_attach_command). deploy/INSTALL.md and
install_mam.sh show the `herdr --session <server> agent attach <herdr name>`
form.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.agents/skills/multi-agent-mux-create/scripts/create_session.sh

@@ -767,6 +767,6 @@ fi
 trap - EXIT
 echo "agent-sessions.yaml updated"
 echo
-echo "Attach:  herdr session attach $SESSION_NAME"
+echo "Attach:  $(session_attach_command "$SESSION_NAME" "${HERDR_SESSION_NAME:-default}")"
 echo "Delete:  use multi-agent-mux-stop skill"
 echo "Resume:  use multi-agent-mux-resume skill (after first message creates a session id)"